Do You Believe it or not....

Stay in Obscurity

2011-04-01T16:33:00.000-07:00

Once stop caring
Never expect love keeps on growing well
It will be worse like in the hell
Going to be dead
Lose its chemistry and soul
Cold, weak and so pale
Wondering, how can it be so frail?
Thinking many times, seeking the reason behind
You copied paste any quote from certain site
I never mind with it actually
If you used only for enriching your insight
But then I found you made it as reference
Implementing in real life
Dislike and disagree totally
With the quote you told as great saying
It says, Love is like trees
Only demanding attention
and caring in the beginning
Once it blossoms
Will provide shade in all seasons
How can you apply it in real?
That's why you only take care of me
in the beginning?
After knowing well love growing up
In my heart....
You never maintaining it
Even get started to ignore
You always did stupid things
Simplifying anything
Well, just look within
What's up with our relation
It being so frail
I can't do anything if so
Stay silent is much better
Coz you never understand my words
Facing your strong heart
I really dislike confusing situation
Need to decide, stay in love or breakup
Let it be in obscurity just like a torment
Be honest, I wanna we strive hard to revive our love
No matter how hard we must do
You still remember when you said how difficult
to conquer and capture my heart
If reminding this, hopefully you will do the same thing
Never let our love being ruined
We glorified it as sincere and pure one
One of the most precious wealth we ever got
Do not let it fading away
Getting crushed in vain...
Disappear without valuable meaning
It can be so painful and hurtful
We got horrible destiny
and deep regret for lifetime
If losing the most amazing thing we had
Do not being too late to save that
Never let it being ruined
If it's happened, making real disaster
We can suffer, so terrible
Get in the darkness without light of our love
I never imagining all
Just awakening our consciousness
Do not delay our decision...
To revive soon our collapse love
Preventing is better before it happens
But sustaining love needed from both sides
If you have nothing to do
Just awaiting a few moment
It will come to an end?
And let us see what happen

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Everlasting LOVE

2010-02-03T12:04:00.000-08:00

As we grow together, as we continue to change with the age. There's one thing will never change. I will always keep falling in Love with you (Karen Clodfelder).

We ever heard many stories about true loves that last for lifetime, like Romeo and Juliet, Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella etc. The stories of true love in movies and playwright sometimes effect in real life for many women, lead them to have high hopes in love, considering themselves as if they're a princess that one day meeting a prince, falling in love each other, getting married and finally living happily for ever after. That all happened in Fantasy, but in real life we also could find many married couples who can maintain their loving relationship and sustain their marriage for ever after.
I have ever met a married couples, who has passed successfully a lot of handicaps and challenges in their marriage. They are too old, in the age more than 70, they have been bonded in marriage for more than 50 years but they can keep in love. The old man shows his big love by calling his spouse with very nice name, as like honey, baby, sweety. The old woman did the same thing, calling her husband tenderly. They show to the World that their love will never change...
True loves always need to be provided with the proof, and that is why in this matter action is more valuable than words. Everyone could easily say that he or she loves someone, but he/she must prove in the real action. When our spouse getting older, it is natural that he or she is not attractive anymore, we often compare to others. Comparing our spouse with others, is not wise and it shows that our love is just limited in physically performance...
Everlasting love is very meaningful love that lasts a lifetime, where both couple could maintain their love for so many years. They could not be separated each other, because they have been bonded by very powerful love. Even if her or his spouse getting older, and being no more attractive person, but in his or her eyes, the spouse is still nice. He or she keeps always in love with him/her. Do not mind with the change physically, their loves grow well in the heart, they ignore with the age that probably for anyone else could kill the love.
A little bit of time they passed in dispute or disagreement, finally they realize how precious they living happily with the glory of love. They have found the substance of love and eventually they could not live apart till the end of time, till the World could not go round anymore. The true love would really be so amazing!

Children and The Mall

2010-01-07T14:32:00.000-08:00

In big cities, many people, specially the teens and children love going to Mall or shopping center. The Mall is most visited place to hang out because of its convenience, they spend a lot of times to go shopping, sightseeing, meet friends and connecting with new ones. For the parents, in holidays or weekends, the Mall is also the favorite area to hang out with their children. Bringing the kids to Mall might be an optional relaxation for them. After shopping, they could have lunch with family or just walking around.
If we pose question to the kids, why they love going to Mall, never been surprised if they directly answer." Yea..I could get nice burger and ice cream in Mc Donalds! Mom always buy that for me..". The kids are so familiar with instant meal, all kinds of fast food available in Mall, those from Mc Donalds, KFC, or another else.
The teens and children are certainly safe going to Mall while they are accompanied by the parents or by an adult. It will be so dangerous and risky if the the children going to Mall by themselves without adult's supervision. Unidentified guys could immediately come across them for offering anything suspicious as like drugs. It might be aware for the parents to supervise their children. Considering and thinking many times before letting your children go to Mall without adult's supervision.
Mall could be a very fun and comfortable place to hang out, but paradoxically, it could be dangerous area. Make sure you child to avoid anyone they do not know and stay with their friends at all times and call if anything suspicious or scary happens. Please monitor your children well, they may be upset with you now, but one day they will understand why you were protective of them. (Source:www.wiki.answer.com).
We all know that basically the teens have tendency to be fragile in personality, they could be easily to be influenced by external factors. They get into high curiosity, wanting very much to try something new or doing something else that they did not do before. Bad Guys often sacrifice them as the object of their criminal operations, commerce in drugs, children trafficking or children sexual abuse. Loving and taking care of the children are the parents' responsibilities.

E-Learning, E-Earning

2009-12-21T15:02:00.000-08:00

People earn money for several reasons, most of them certainly get income for their living cost. I do not agree with the opinion that money can buy happiness. But I do admit that without money, it is hard to get a better life. Money is necessity and we try to earn money as much as possible.
As usual people working up in a certain place like office, but the Internet let us to have another option of the way to get extra money. The life has been changing, and now we can start getting money from home. E-Learning, we can be easily accessible the process of learning from websites. Searching lots of websites in which we can discover everything and getting many benefits; finding out best references for new topics of our writing.
I was rather skeptical whenever a friend of mine told me how he could get money from on line writing. But now I have seen the proof, and without hesitation I try to follow his excellent suggestion.
The Internet has opened up tremendous opportunities for writers to earn a good income from home. The best part of earning money through on line writing is the convenience and "no pressure" factor. Writers get a chance to earn money at their convenience and without any pressure of 'deadlines'. (Source: Ezinearticles.com).
We know previously many writers of magazines and newspapers got depressed because of the pressure of deadlines, or another from the Boss. Keep on writing from home, we could be more productive but the first obstacle, we must fight against laziness. Motivate ourselves by scheduling our work and we need to make well time management.
It is noted that writers should select carefully the topics of writing. The sensitive issues such as criticism about any beliefs of religion must be evitable. Many interesting topics are available, like parenting, environments, education, and much more. We can create our home being our interesting "office", and keep on writing regularly in convenience make our activity more desirable. This could be profitable and without pressure, bring us more relaxed. The relaxed atmosphere of working lead us to be creative, productive and more knowledgeable. E-Learning become E-Earning, this option will open our viewpoint.

Positive Hobby that Could Heal Myself

2009-12-11T14:50:00.000-08:00

In the previous article, I talked about my bad habit, so easily getting high-tempered whenever I did not have any positive activities. Finally I could overcome trouble in my psychological case by doing enjoyable thing, writing articles in my blog. Blogging, is a very desirable and interesting for me to do. It could heal myself, I threw away something stupid and bad behavior.
May be someone else or other people also have some positive hobbies, these could empower ourselves to be better human being. There's a such of wise words, the right mindsets could bring us as right people. For creating right mindsets, we should set up our open-mindedness by e-Learning. E-Learning, as we know is a need for all of us. This is people learning process using cyber-space in which we need computer and internet link accessing.
The most visited web being my favorite is certainly Google. By Googling, I mean browsing from this site, I could easily search and find out various sites. I am so excited doing that and so wondered, without feeling tired I could spend a lot of times in front of my laptop. I fulfill my daily routine with something good and it makes my life more meaningful than before. I never let myself waste time with something useless, no doubt about it. No more cruel and careless words that could harm another. Thanks God I could heal myself, with a very simple thing to do and it is not necessary going to psycholog. Other people could do the same thing as I have done.

How I could End Verbal Abuse in my Household..

2009-12-04T15:02:00.000-08:00

Many writing or articles have talked about domestic violences, whether physical, psychological or verbal, against women. But little has revealed how men could be also objects of any kinds of violences. And this is a brief story of my personal case in my household. I'm not scared or worried if it would create a bad image of myself. I just want to share something to others, may be it can enrich anyone else experience.
After decided to stop working from my office many years ago, I become an ordinary housewife. The time goes fast and I get bored with my routine. I have bad mood, easily angry with no obvious reason. The object my anger is certainly my husband, I often speak loudly to him with careless words. Domestic violences, verbal abuse or otherwise, are certainly unjustified. However, I could not manage well my bad mood and too hard to avoid anger.

It is not true whenever people say: "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". We know that the wounds inflicted by the cruel words are fatal for a relationship. (Source:www.selfhelpmagazine.com).

Fortunately, I have a very kind hearted husband, with deep patience and wisdom. He has never done the same thing to me, he kept silence each time I was angry. It occurs over and over, I did something bad and stupid. My soulmate is a great guy, he never condemn me eventhough I often wound him with cruel words. Be honest, in the deep of my heart I felt a little guilty, but I was so powerless to fight against my terrible bad mood.
Until one day my husband suggested me to break out of my routine by socializing with positive friends. A friend of mine asked me to join in Facebook, and another, helped me to create website. My husband knows that I like very much writing any articles. He supports and gives me a laptop. Incredible, after having a lot of activities by accessing internet, I could manage wisely my bad mood. I am very excited with my new and positive hobby, I join Facebook in which I can connect many people and share a lot of things with them. With my website, I can write down many ideas on my mind into articles. There's always best way to resolve our trouble. Now I realized that I have wasted a lot of times by getting anger. That is too bad and destructive. It's time to reflect and get start to be a better housewife. It's true that domestic violences, verbal abuse or another, absolutely unjustified and could harm or wound anyone else. End it right now ..

My Dream Comes True

2009-11-11T03:22:00.000-08:00

Batik, one of The World Cultural Heritage

In Octobre 2, 2009, The UNESCO has declared that Batik – one of Indonesian’s traditional Arts – as one of the World Cultural Heritage. This achievement could be a pride for us, Indonesian people.

In fact, Indonesia has so many arts and cultural products, that’s why we must keep them well and it is necessary to anticipate any kinds of “worst possibilities” in order the other countries wouldn’t claim as their owner…

Jalan-jalan gratis ke Amerika (My dream comes true….)

Pada thn 2001, aku mulai belajar menggunakan internet, dari browsing sampai membuat dan mengirim e-mail. Waktu itu pengguna internet belum terlalu banyak. Aku mengakses internet darisebuah warnet yang ada di kotaku. Jumlah warnet pun waktu itu belum sebanyak sekarang. Hanya ada satu, dua warnet saja.

Tahun 2002, dari seorang saudara aku meperoleh informasi bahwa Radio Suara Amerika ( Voice of America/ VOA) mengadakan kontes, salah satunya kontes E-mail Direct. Akupun mendaftar dan mengrim E-mail ke VOA. Yang membuat aku tertarik mengikuti kontes tersebut karena hadiah grand-prize nya sangat menggiurkan, yakni mendapat kesempatan untuk jalan-jalan gratis ke Amerika, semua transportasi dan akomodasi ditanggung oleh pihak VOA.

Meskipun “excited” mengikuti kontes itu, namun aku tak terlalu berharap untuk menjadi salah seorang pemenang, mengingat banyaknya orang yang mengikuti kontes itu. Aku menganut prinsip “nothing to loose” aja, jadi tidak terlalu obsesif.

Suatu pagi, kira-kira jam 4.30 dini hari, di bulan Juni 2002, aku terbangun oleh dering suara telepon. Tak disangka aku mendapat telepon dari VOA yang memberitahu bahwa aku keluar sebagai salah seorang pememang kontes, dan memperoleh grand – prize, jalan-jalan gratis ke Amerika dengan seorang teman/ pasangan. YaAllah, aku benar-benar kaget, antara percaya atau tidak. Unbelieveable! Sama sekali tak disangka kalau aku akan mendapat kesempatan untuk menginjak Negara Uncle Sam, yang selama ini hanyalah merupakan sebuah mimpi. Amerika Serikat, sebuah Negara yang dikenal sebagai Negara Adi Kuasa, yang secara geografis memang sangat jauh dari Indonesia…Apalagi suamiku yang seorang Pegawai Negeri Sipil, rasanya tak mungkin bisa menyisihkan sisa belanja bulanan untuk traveling ke AS.Traveling ke luar negeri, apalagi ke AS, merupakan sebuah kemewahan yang tak pernah terlintas dibenak untuk mewujudkannya. Tapi siapa yang bisa menolak kuasa Allah? Ini adalah ‘miracle’ dari-Nya untuk diriku.

Mengurus paspor dan visa tidak semudah yang aku bayangkan. Terutama untuk mendapatkan visa dari Kantor Kedutaan Besar Amerika di Jakarta, harus melalui liku-liku birokrasi yang cukup rumit dan selektif. Apalagi peristiwa pemboman gedung World Trade Center (WTC) New York memberi dampak yang cukup signifikan. Pemerintah AS memperketat pengamanan dengan secara selektif memeriksa warga asing yang keluar-masuk Amerika.

Akan tetapi dengan rekomendasi, Mr Norman Goodman, selaku Direktur VOA seksi Indonesia, akhirnya 5 pasangan pemenang grand-prize VOA berhasil mendapat visa. Pada November 2002, aku dan suamiku berangkat ke AS. Waktu itu bulan Ramadhan, dan kami terpaksa tidak menjalankan puasa, mengingat perjalanan yang sangat lama dan melelahkan. Dengan pesawat, perjalanan ditempuh lebih dari 25 jam, karena di Singapore dan Jepang kami harus transit, dan kadang pesawat juga delayed. Selama perjalanan, meski lelah, namun kami ‘excited’ sekali karena ini merupakan pengalaman pertama yang benar-benar spektakuler. Dengan pesawat Northwest, kami terbang dari bandara Changi Singapore menuju Amerika. Tentu saja perjalanan kami ber sepuluh didampingi oleh seorang tour guide yang ditunjuk oleh pihak VOA.

Setelah berada “di udara” selama berpuluh-puluh jam, kami akhirnya mendarat di New York City. Bandara New York sangatlah besar dan luas. Waktu kami tiba di sana, sudah ada seorang driver yang menjemput dan mengantarkan kami ke sebuah hotel. Udara sangat dingin karena akan memasuki musim dingin, namun salju belum turun. Tapi entah kenapa aku yang biasanya alergi terhadap udara dingin, waktu itu merasa baik-baik saja. Mungkin karena bersemangat dan sangat excited…

Setelah beristirahat semalam di hotel, kami pun jalan-jalan menysuri kota New York. Di pusat kota New York, manhattan street, yang terlihat hanyalah gedung pencakar langit..Kami juga mengunjungi bekas gedung World Trade Center yang di bom, yang dikenal dengan Ground Zero…. Hari-hari berikutnya adalah hari-hari yang penuh aktivitas, kami hanya mengikuti jadual yang dibuat oleh VOA, mengunjungi studio VOA di Washington D.C, melihat kantor presiden waktu itu, George W. Bush (White House) juga Capitol Hill (Geung Parlemen AS), Potomac River (sungai yang membelah kota Wshington D.C), Lincolynn Memorial dll. Kami juga ke beberapa Negara bagian lainnya, Pensylvania, Florida dll. Di Florida kami tak lupa ke Disneyland. Tentu saja Niagara, dan Patung Liberty yang merupakan Landmark kota New York, dan juga salah satu keajaiban dunia, tak luput dari kunjungan kami.

Perjalanan yang panjang dan melahkan terbayar sudah, selama 10 hari jalan-jalan di AS sungguh merupakan karunia yang tak ternilai..dan kami pasti bersyukur sekali. Dari akses internet, kami bisa merasakan sesuatu yang indah, melihat secara langsung Negara adidaya yang selama ini tak pernah terbayangkan dibenak kami…Unbelieveable! My Dream comes true…Alhamdulillah, thanks to Allah, Te Almighty…

Batik, the world cultural heritage

2009-10-21T17:35:00.000-07:00

In octobre 2, 2009, The UNESCO has declared BATIK ( one of Indonesian's traditional arts) as one of the World cultural heritage. This could be a pride for us, Indonesian people.

In fact, Indonesia has so many arts and cultural products, and we must keep them and it is necessary to anticipate any kinds of 'worst possibilities', in order the other countries wouldn't claim as their owner.....

The eternity of love...

2009-10-20T18:12:00.000-07:00

In 1989, so many years ago, there's a young girl met a young man. Between them, there're many differents 'backgrounds'.., culture, religion, and principles of life. Unfortunately, beyond of their controls, they falled in love each other. The young girl is a moslem from Indonesia, the young man is a french, and he doesn't beleive in any religion. They love each ather but they could get married because of a lot of handycaps....But, one day in 2009, they meet again via facebook, they still love each other but their conditions have been changed. The man has got married and also the woman. They are in the differents countries, but they could keep contact via facebook. People said in French proverb, L'amour sans espoir est encore un bonheur...This is very suitable with the reality they have...

Music Therapy

2009-10-20T17:59:00.000-07:00

There's a man suffered of a kind of sickness called "stroke", for a long time, he couldn't walk because of that disease....but one day, he followed television program called 'happy song', he stay tuned in front of television...everyday...and there's a miracle....he could be better day by day. Finally, after following that television program which could make his mood happier, he could walk and be free of his disease. The conclusion, music therapy could be a very effective therapy for any kind of diseases! Believe it or not!